I have been watching what people blog about and it's become pretty clear that people blog for a number of different reasons.
I have friends that blog as a way of personal journaling (as a sort of therapy), for some it's a way to let people know what you've been up to, and for others, it's a way to keep track of what happened/where type of documentation. I use it for all three.
I have also noticed that people make comments that they shouldn't make. I have talked to a few of my friends that have had people make comments that are just plain rude, assumptive and have turned posts & comments into fodder for gossip.
Personally, I LOVE when people make comments and haven't had rude comments on my page. I have been fortunate that way... but other's haven't. So I have posted the Miss Manners Etiquitte Link (click on the purple). I'm not saying that I have perfect manners when it comes to SO many areas, but I try.
With regard to gossip, a friend recently wrote on her blog that she was fed up with her family and didnt' give a lot of details. All of a sudden, according to "friends" she is divorcing, quit going to church, and is now on a lot "happy pills", almost to the point of addiction. None of these are true. She is still happily married, her 5 kids have been her main source of stress, has a wonderful calling and is getting help, but there aren't pills involved, yet. ☺ Her close friends know the real story, but the "others" have assumed and made her life miserable. So, please be careful about your comments.
What I think people have forgotten about blogs is that you are visiting someone's thoughts about life and in a way, visiting their home. Don't make remarks in the comment area that you wouldn't make to them in person.
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